Question for my readers....
There is a man who comes in several times a week, and has for several months. He lives about 4 hours away from the city where he works (he's a physician's assistant) and drives through Hick County to get there. He is extremely intelligent, (which is the #1 thing I look for in a man) and funny, and very nice. We have become friends, talking about music, literature, politics, travel...and today he gave me a surprise. Jeff came in this morning, and I was really busy, he just handed me a note, with a smile, and wandered away...
The note said that he found me extremely attractive, and that he was interested in getting together and getting to know each other better... if I was interested, to simply hand him back the note - with a big smile... if not, to tear it up where he could see me, and that would be that....
Catch is, he is married. Very unhappily, I might add, but married just the same. My question is: Is is worth it to get involved with a married man, when I think he and I may be extremely compatible, or am I setting myself up for disaster??
Please, everyone who reads this, give me your opinion! I had an affair with a married man once before, and it was really great, and we are still friends (he having just recently contacted me again... see previous two or three posts) but is it wise to start another relationship like this?? Give me your opinion! I realize that it is my decision, but I would like to hear others' input...
PS In case you are wondering, I DID hand him back the note, intact.....with a smile...
The note said that he found me extremely attractive, and that he was interested in getting together and getting to know each other better... if I was interested, to simply hand him back the note - with a big smile... if not, to tear it up where he could see me, and that would be that....
Catch is, he is married. Very unhappily, I might add, but married just the same. My question is: Is is worth it to get involved with a married man, when I think he and I may be extremely compatible, or am I setting myself up for disaster??
Please, everyone who reads this, give me your opinion! I had an affair with a married man once before, and it was really great, and we are still friends (he having just recently contacted me again... see previous two or three posts) but is it wise to start another relationship like this?? Give me your opinion! I realize that it is my decision, but I would like to hear others' input...
PS In case you are wondering, I DID hand him back the note, intact.....with a smile...
3 Comments:
Interesting... I have thought about it, and I have never been in a relationship where I came first...Whether or not there was another woman (and more often than not, there was) the rest of any man's life has always come before me... I wouldn't know what that was like... I really don't think I probably will start this relationship,(even if it was the most interesting offer I have had in a couple of years) simply because I am so tired all the time, and I don't have the energy for a relationship... I guess some people were just meant to be alone, and I was one of them... for me it's just work and my son... that's all my life is meant to be...
...Besides, I work 7 days a week, 8 - 15 hours per day... when whould I have time to see anyone??? LOL
Do you know what I miss the most? Hugs. I miss just being able to lay my head on someone's shoulder, to feel like I don't have to be in control of everything all the time, someone to share the load with occasionally....
(P.S. I don't have vacation time coming until the beginning of April...)
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